praise be to Jesiis

I love religious holidays while working at Jesiis, Inc.  Because of Good Friday, today is actually my Friday, which works very well for me. 

The movers are coming tomorrow and I am so excited.  I haven’t gotten enough done yet, but I still have tonight.  No procrastination here!  So I’ve decided to temporarily take my loveseat so I’ll have a place to sit, but that and the bed are really the only pieces of furniture that will make the cut.   After that – my clothes and some personal items and I’ll be done.  The rest will be prepared for the big sale.  I can’t say if I’m more excited about the big purge or the move.  A little of both.

Last night’s coffee date with cute guy with a dog was excellent.  We ended up having a great dinner after coffee, and seriously cracked up like hardcore the entire time.  It was awesome.  The guy is older – 36, so not too old, from NY, good looking, tall (yummmmmmmmy – love the tall ones) and not nearly as funny as me, but laughed at me enough to make it ok.  I seriously laughed so hard I came home last night with a headache.  I have been out with funny people before, but there was more laughter than conversation on this date and it was loads of fun.  I definitely look forward to date #2 here, but I’ve learned some things from the Vince situation that I’m hoping can be applied here.  I don’t want to rush anything…oh, who the fuck am I kidding – I kinda do.  Because it’s what I do.

Funny thing about this guy – isn’t there always a “funny thing” – is that we actually started talking last summer before I met Chris.  We hit it off pretty quickly and were arranging our first date when I agreed to go on a date with Chris, hit it off with him, and then dropped this dude like a hot potato.  I remember back when I got together with Chris that I thought to myself that maybe I should send this guy a courtesy response just in case I’d need to look him up later, but I was sooo totally convinced that Chris and I were meant to be that I just put the emails in my saved folder and went on about my business.  So, when I became single again and he found me and sent me an email it was like picking up from back then…except he didn’t know it was me when he first contacted me.

So who knows…I’m not trying to look for all kinds of signs and fate and all that other crap, I’m just saying.  I look forward to seeing this one again.  And shit – there won’t be a fucking 5 week wait for anything!  Looking back at that all it did was make me like Vince more…probably the point…but look where that got me.

Speaking of Vinny – I miss him.  I know, I know.  I’m the one who said it wasn’t working, but I really jumped the gun on that.  I tried to talk to him about it, but I could tell he wasn’t feeling what I had to say, and I get that.  I just really liked being around him and miss that connection we had.  He was so much fun…and so chill…and so easy to be around.  I definitely made a bad decision there, but I understand why he won’t let me go back on that decision.  It’s fair – just sucks.  Maybe we’ll get to hang out a little more after I move.  Maybe not.  I have to sleep in the bed I made.  Boooo. 

Happy Friday!