I had a dream the other night about My Southern Boy. Before Mr. D came along MSB was the holder of the Best Sex Ever title. Man, that boy was hotness personified. Like 10 times hotter than Mr. D, but that’s neither here nor there. I have some fond memories of the times he and I spent together, so when I got a friend request from him on facebook nearly 2 years after the last time we’d hung out I was pleasantly surprised. If nothing else it gave me a chance to look at his pictures and fondly recall the way in which our bodies moved together in such bliss.
Over the past couple months we’ve sent emails back and forth, spoke on the phone once, texted a little. He’s asked me to go have coffee multiple times – that was our thing (besides the great sex). We always had coffee dates and sat and talked for hours. I turned him on to Starbucks, he turned me on to Sports Center. But, with the very big exception of Mr. D, I tend to keep the past in the past.
Sure, there were a few who go t through that barrier for a date or two, but usually I’m of the mindset that if it didn’t work before it’s not going to now. Problem is that was a much easier mindset to adopt when there were a plethora of men around, as there were a couple years ago. At this point in the draught of 2010 the pickins are slim and a coffee date with the former BSE title holder doesn’t really sound half bad. In fact it sounds downright delightful.
Not to mention the little fact that Mr. D and I are no longer sleeping together (it’s been over 2 months! Can you believe it?!) and this girl is getting a wee bit ready for some action in that department. It was good a few years ago, so it should still be good, right? The problem is if there’s a lack of connection will it really be that great? Not sure. I guess it can’t hurt to find out. And I think I shall!
Awwwww hell. LOL
Insane indeed. You know you get emotionally attached right? What makes you think the “connection” won’t come back, especially if he lays the pipe right?
You’re making so many solid moves in the right direction to find someone who fulfills ALL of your needs. Don’t backslide now! :)
While I do understand WHY you think this, I have to disagree…only because I know my history. You have been reading during the Mr. D days and as far as I know not much before that. The experience with Mr. D is NOT indicative of the way I’ve done things in the past. It’s not a pattern, it’s been an anomaly. Most people who read don’t know that, as they’ve also only been around in recent months since I made my blog public again.
And I do want to find someone who fulfills ALL of my needs, but I also haven’t met anyone in ages. AGES. So it’s not like I’m disregarding better choices to have a little fun. It’s more that the boredom just gets…well, boring. And I’d rather have a night of fun with someone I enjoy as a person, but wouldn’t likely see as more than a good night than go months without sex. I’m too old for that :)
Do you think you haven’t met anyone in AGES because the Universe is waiting for you to stop wasting time with dudes you know aren’t good for you?
Just a thought.
Like I said – I get what you’re saying, but I’ve been single for over 3 years. Mr. D is only a piece of that, not the reason for it. There haven’t been a bunch of dudes I know aren’t good for me.
hell i say do what you gotta do. I’m definitely NOT mad lol
Whew!!! I’ve been sitting here holding my breath that you would give me permission!
LOL :) Love ya!
yea that’s right! u wait for the Krissy green like or I’ll have my baby bite you! lol
green light* that is
I will bite YOU.
* fights you all in your face* :P
Go for it Barista. If there’s one thing that’s better than anything else when you’re single, it’s gettin’ some strange. And as a happily married guy, I can honestly say that getting all that out of my system made it very easy to avoid temptation once I went monogamist.
That’s what I’m saying. Might as well enjoy it now :)
Love,
The Cupcake Queen.